Friday, January 23, 2015

Working on my release homework

If you read my previous post, you know that Miss V locked me up in my new chastity device and game me a condition to gain my release: I was to develop a clear, concise set of rules by which to obtain my release. She didn't like the idea of leaving it open to her own decision, but wanted some clear rules for me to gain release. This, in my opinion, stems from two causes:

  1. Miss V wants to make sure that whatever she does to me has been consented by me in advance. I think this eliminates any feelings of guilt she may experience when doing things to me that she considers cruel or unusual. (Well, this is weird, but he asked for it)
  2. Miss V has a philosophy which is similar to that of Miss Rika, in which she thinks that giving me what I want should not represent work for her. She wants me to work to develop a set of rules to live by, and she wants them to be clear and simple.
I have been having a hard time coming up with the rules, basically because I am blocked by the fact that I am in chastity and that Miss V has been so accommodating and understanding. Since we are on opposite schedules right now, I had to text her a few questions and here are her answers:

Q - Do you want my release to be determined by random, like in the Marbles game, or do you wish to decide when i can come out?
A - Random

Q - Do you like to have action cards that you draw and direct you to an activity?
A - Nor particularly, but I can live with them

Q - Would you agree to use spanking, say once a week, as a motivational technique?
A - (laughs out loud) Sure, honey.

After these question, I'm working on these three premises
  1. I will have some random element in determining if I get to have an orgasm or come out of the chastity device. I will probably go back and use the marbles again, since they worked so nicely for our other game. By the way, the result are not completely random, because my adherence to a set of behaviors changed the proportion of green and red marbles in the pouch changing my odds, but when she wanted to have sex, she would randomly draw a marble, and abide my it, So the draw is random, but my actions affected the odds. I will go for that again.
  2. I will have the chance to write action cards. This works fine for two reasons, first, V does not like to "have to think"about the stuff she does and because I get to introduce many of my fantasies without directly telling her what to do. She gets veto power over any of the cards, so if she doesn't like a card, I don't get rejected directly, I will just not see it being used
  3. Miss V will spank me. What Im'; thinking of doing is making a list of "good habits" and use demerits as I fail to abide by them. This may or may not work because Miss V thinks that I like to be spanked, which is true, and because of that, I need to be rewarded and not punished with spanking, We'll see,
And what has happened since the time when she gave me the assignment? Not much, but Miss V seems super comfortable with me locked, When I was changing my pants to drive her to work, she grabbed my chastity device and pulled on it, and commented that I was cute, with a "bionic" member. I got hard under the device, my glans showing from the side windows.

Yesterday, I told her that I really wanted her and she responded that sometimes it is good not to get what you want. Today I asked if there was a chance that she would unlock me and she just looked at me and asked me "What condition did I give you to get unlocked?" 

"You said," I ventured to say. "That you really really wanted to unlock me and give me a hand job on Saturday". This of course, was a lie, 

"Well," she responded. "I will think about it, because today is Friday,,,"

I groaned. I really thought today was Saturday.

She smiled and told me that she would still consider unlocking me Saturday morning, but that she would not tell if she was going to do it, or what she would do with it once it was out.

I hugged her and told her that I was feeling so aroused that she was the only thing on my mind all day long,

Now I better get writing those rules she wants, because I would not put it past her to get me out of the device, have sex with me to her own orgasm and having me locked again,


Wednesday, January 21, 2015

I'm in Chastity!!!

"I need to  take a long, nice bath, said V getting up from the couch where we had been watching TV together. "After, we can talk about your, uh, metal toys. I need you to explain them to me, because I don't get it".

With  that, she went to the bathroom, leaving me hung up with surprise at the fact that she had been the one to breach the subject, We had not spoken about the device because our schedules had not allowed us time together for the past few days,

My mind was racing at top speed as I carefully considered how to frame my explanation, I decided to go in the direction of simplicity, and use the one rule I wrote about elsewhere. In case you have not read that article, here is the one rule:


The male wants to earn an orgasm and is willing to do as much as he can to please his woman in order to earn it. The woman wants the male to strive for his orgasm and wants to delay it as much as possible to enjoy the benefits.

So, there I was, all ready and excited and horny (have not had sex in a while now) and my wife bringing the subject up.

After she finished in the bathroom, and it really took a long time, I joined her in the room. She was busy with stuff from work, and I waited... and waited.

When I felt that I was about to fall asleep, I asked her if she was almost done, to which she said no, and asked me if I needed anything.

"I thought you wanted to talk about my chastity,"I answered in as casual a voice as I could muster. 

"Oh, yes,"she said. asking me to wait one minute for her to finish something, and then asking, "So, explain this  game to me, I don't get it, What do you want to play?" 

"Well," I said. "It's simple, I want you to have control, and acknowledge that you have it, which you will do by locking me in the device and keeping control of the key. I want to have orgasms, and to treat you in a way that makes you want to get me out of the cage and let me have them."

Of course, when I was saying it, it didn't sound as clear as this, There were much hesitation, and circular conversation.

"I don't like it.., The marbles game was so much easier,"she said referring to the old chastity game we used to play. "In that game, I knew exactly what the rules were, and knew what to do, On this game, I'm not so sure. I'm not a gamer, so I can;t make rules up, so you have to give me something clearer than that,:

I paused, thinking that the opportunity was slipping through my fingers. What to say? What rules could I give her? If I control the game, than I'm not under her control, right?

"I think," I said after a long pause, "I'm going to have to think some more about it."

"Well," she said. "Maybe this will motivate you to think, The condition for the lock to be open is going to be that you give me a well thought set of clear rules for you to follow. You are going to be locked up until you give me that",

I gasped. I could not believe what I was hearing. I was going to be in chastity even though I had botched my opportunity to introduce it properly, and Miss V was making the decision!

I asked her if she wanted me to be locked right away and she said "Of course!"

"I really, really want you," I said. "Can I get a hand job before you lock me up?" 

She looked at me for an instant, and I knew she was considering it. She was on a trip and arrived in her cycle, so we have not been intimate for quite some time, but the moment didn't last, She smiled and said "No". 

"Maybe on Saturday," she said afterwards. 

We talked a little bot about logistics, about cleaning the device, about what to do in case of emergency (cut the lock) and about it being difficult to put on when aroused (which I was, very much) and then I went to take a shower. 

I struggled with the device but eventually managed to get into it, When I came out of the bathroom, holding it through my bathrobe, Miss V was sitting on the couch, so I walked there.

"The other way, mister,"she said. "Go to your room,"

I went to the room and she followed. Then she placed the lock on the device, and clicked it shut.

"Bye bye birdie,"she said kissing the key and putting it into her necklace. "You are going to be locked for a long time,"

So, here I am now, locked in chastity for the first time, leaking precum all over the place, with a bit if homework to do and wondering how it ends...

Saturday, January 17, 2015

Miss V. Meets my Chastity Device

V is back from her travels, and I introduced her to the chastity device today.

I was waiting to introduce it to her AFTER we had sex, but she had some information to share with me that made me change my mind: She is on her period.

So, there was not much time, because after we cuddled in bed for a bit and I was kissing her belly and over her panties she told me she had to go. There will be more talking about this, she said, but at least they 'met' each other. 

Here is how the conversation went:

ME: "Well. I was waiting to tell you after we had sex, but since we are NOT going to have sex, I might as well tell you now."

HER: (applying her makeup in front of the mirror) What is it, honey?

ME: "While you were gone, my Christmas gift finally arrived"

HER: (looking around) "What did you get?"

ME: "It's a chastity belt" 

HER: "What? I'm not gonna wear it!"

ME: "I know, it's for me!"

HER: "Well, YOU can wear it, but I'm NOT going to wear it!"

ME: "No, you can't wear it. It is a cage, It holds to the penis."

HER: "Oh, OK then."

ME: "Do you want to see it?"

HER: "Only if you can hurry, I need to go." 

ME: (handing her the lock with the two tiny keys) "Here, hold this."

HER: (puts the lock on her necklace and locks it) 

ME: (grabbing the pouch from the bedside table and bringing the device out) "I actually need the lock. This is the ring, and this is the tube. The ring goes behind the balls and the tube needs to be locked to  hold in place."

HER: (taking the lock off her necklace again) "Of course the lock is for you! What am I thinking?"

ME: (Assembling the chastity device in my hand, there is no way I can put myself into it at this point, since I had a throbbing erection) "So, this is how it goes." 

HER: "This is so funny! Here," (hands me the keys) "keep it together. I don't want to lose it. I don't understand the game, but I'm game. I actually think it is kind of cute, but I don't have time right now. I have to go."  

Well, after that, she finished getting ready, and left.

Now, I'm here, so happy that I finally presented her with the device and wondering what on earth was so scary that kept me from doing this a ling time ago. I should be aware by now that the way to approach V with kink is when sex is NOT on the table and when we are both relaxed and playful. Every time I have done it, she has gone with it, but usually, when I ask for kink during sex or when approaching sex, she does not feel too excited about it.

I'm sure we are going to be talking about it later, and her reaction of trying to put the lock on her necklace right away tells me that she will hold my key without a problem. 

This is a golden opportunity that I can't let go to waste, but I'm not 100% sure on how to handle. I think it is best to leave it open as in "Let's run a trial and talk about some more later" so we can address any issues. I don't want to get stuck in a set of rules that is not optimal for both of us, 

Any suggestions will be appreciated, although I don't know how much time I'll have before I have to discuss it with V (maybe tonight,if I don't fall asleep before she gets here).

Wish me luck.